It's me here, back with some random stuff to tell you. My last post was about feelings, precisely about negative feelings. So today more positivity and tips for you to get more successful and happier.
So, first of all, I want to tell you, that recently I saw this video on Youtube, which had those magnificent ideas for artists becoming more successful and that made me want to add my own tips. But I realized that those tips are great for everyone to use, so this post is going to be a combination of few opinions :)
First tip: use inspiration correctly.
Most people (like me) tend to have those waves of inspiration. Then we start trying to express that tension and most of the times we fail. I am sorry, but that is true. We fail because we believe that the only thing we need is inspiration, the passion, the feeling that makes you go crazy, but, well, that is maybe for skilled people. If you are not, well, you are not going to succeed by using that inspiration in creation. You need to build your skills. If you are not that talented (as I am), you don't have any particular skill, you should use that inspiration to build one (or few). You need to figure out what you want to do or what you were good at school or just wake your skills up and develop them. Using inspiration in that way, I believe, you are going to achieve more than you ever thought you could.
Second tip: do not stop.
You fail. We all fail. This is how world works, i guess. Even wolf can not catch his prey ever single time. I've red that they only catch 1 animal from 10. But they do not stop. Because they need this to survive. So do we. And I am not talking about hunting, I am talking about not giving up. Try try try try and try. Do do do do and do. Never give up, never stop at the end of something. You think the thing is perfect. It is not, it always can be better. You can be better, stronger, kinder. Your creations too. Not only creations. I am not only talking about skills. Damn it. We stop at every single thing that goes wrong. But what we need to do is jump over it and continue doing what we need, want, have to do. Break up, death, injury, illness, lost, lack of something. Are they greater than us, are they more powerful, are we not important to ourselves at that range? That we lose ourselves to unemployment, to break ups? I think not, I bet, You think not too. So why proving yourself that you are when you are not?
Third tip: think about others more, about yourself less, but keep the balance.
I tend to over think stuff. Like it is more important than anything. Mostly the stuff that was not predicted that happened to others or to me. And it is frustrating.That never helps nobody, but ruins my life and my mental stability. Best way is to balance stuff. Maybe your problem is that you are egocentric. Maybe it is that you are altruist. Maybe you are ignorant. All of these things are extreme, they are too intense for one person, they harm you. And others. You need to realize that nothing is the center of the universe, but everything is. It is complicated, but true. That means everyone is equally important. People should help others whether they can or not, but giving all yourself to it, loosing yourself will give you nothing but frustration. Same thing if you leave all the world outside and care just for yourself. You gonna root inside and there will be nothing left than pretty box full of nothing :) Balancing is remembering that life gives you lessons, that life gives you opportunities, "lemons" they say, but dropping everything for one thing will never gonna walk you to fullness.
Fourth tip: Don't live outside yourself. Live in yourself.
Caring what people think, caring what they do, trying to understand if that makes anyone better and how things would be different WILL NOT CHANGE A THING, well, except you are going to be miserable. People need to understand that they should do what they are good at, that they want, that they need. You can change it, change everything: color of your hair, length of your nails, power of your car, your job, your school subject, also you may focus on health, beauty, art, philosophy, traveling. The thing is you shouldn't do it, if you want it to get into other people minds, you should do it if you want it to be you regardless of others. If you would do it, if you would stop doing something for yourself because you want the impact to be done to others, how different you would be? Would you be the same?
That's it for now. I am going to post some more, latter.
Bye
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