this is going to be the second part of my tips for getting better quality life :)
Fifth tip: realize what the pride is.
Being proud, as I understand it is believing in yourself, knowing your values and living by them, having high self esteem and being okay with who you are. Other things like, knowing your "price", thinking you are better than other people will not gonna lead you anywhere except to a black list of everyone arround you. Take every opportunity you can, even if it looks tiny and worthless, always remember that you are same you, no matter what, always remember, that anything you do doesn't make you any different than the rest of the world and your wins doesn't allow you to be mean. Being proud means you are strong person, don't let it make you become cold and self-involved.
Sixth tip: never leave important things behind.
Never let people you love go, never let good memories pass away, never leave important work unfinished. It takes time to realize what is important and meaningful for every single of us. But when you do, keep those things near your heart. It will warm you up even in the coldest days of your life. No matter how far or how busy you are always remember your friends and family. You may only have few friends, that is okay. Being with people means that you give part of yourself to them and they give part of themselves to you, more people you know, the smaller part of you they get, less important every single one of them becomes. Don't waste yourself. But when person gets to stay in your heart, never let that part of your heart die. Same stuff is applied to works and jobs you do. If you know it is important to you, if you know you need it for your soul to grow bigger don't let it slip out through your fingers. That may be your last opportunity to do it. Sometimes you must do things you don't like, but you know that they have value. Don't think that you can live without it. Resting, slacking, lunch may wait.But do not overwork yourself, because there are times that anything but not relaxing can wait.
Seventh tip: do it every day.
If you want to achieve anything, you need to practice it everyday. No mater what. If you don't have enough time for the activity, shorten the time you do it, but still keep doing it. Because it goes like that "oh, today I don't feel like it, gonna do it tomorrow. It's tomorrow, nothing gonna change if I wont do it for two days...few days...week... Oh, it was so long ago, I lost my skill and I won't do it again". That's why every single step is important and it doesn't mean that you need to see the change, you just need to keep doing it. After some time it become routine and it will be difficult for you to miss it.
Eighth tip: never be ashamed of yourself.
People think that they aren't perfect. Does it mean anything? Does it let anyone bully you, does it let you to hate yourself, does it let you to think less or more of anyone counting you in? I don't think so. It is not bad to think you are beautiful or smart. It is good, it means you love yourself, you know who you are, you know what you have the best in yourself and how to use it correctly. It is most important. Having something good about yourself do not mean that you have it better that others or worse than others. You have it different and you can't change it. If you can and you can improve it, do it. There are no judges if you don't care about them. Loving yourself, not being afraid and ashamed, thinking "I am not good enough for it; he is too hot for me" and bullsh*t like that is nothing than unnecessary standing in one spot, moving forward would sound like that "I could try, that doesn't cost me anything; he is hot, gonna talk to him because I like hot guys". If people say you no or yes, accept it with the same thankful attitude, because it is lessons you must take, it is what the life is.
Have a good day/night and I will see you latter.
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