Being all successful and stuff part 2

Hi you all,

this is going to be the second part of my tips for getting better quality life :)

Fifth tip: realize what the pride is.
Being proud, as I understand it is believing in yourself, knowing your values and living by them, having high self esteem and being okay with who you are. Other things like, knowing your "price", thinking you are better than other people will not gonna lead you anywhere except to a black list of everyone arround you. Take every opportunity you can, even if it looks tiny and worthless, always remember that you are same you, no matter what, always remember, that anything you do doesn't make you any different than the rest of the world and your wins doesn't allow you to be mean. Being proud means you are strong person, don't let it make you become cold and self-involved.

Sixth tip: never leave important things behind. 
Never let people you love go, never let good memories pass away, never leave important work unfinished. It takes time to realize what is important and meaningful for every single of us. But when you do, keep those things near your heart. It will warm you up even in the coldest days of your life. No matter how far or how busy you are always remember your friends and family. You may only have few friends, that is okay. Being with people means that you give part of yourself to them and they give part of themselves to you, more people you know, the smaller part of you they get, less important every single one of them becomes. Don't waste yourself. But when person gets  to stay in your heart, never let that part of your heart die. Same stuff is applied to works and jobs you do. If you know it is important to you, if you know you need it for your soul to grow bigger don't let it slip out through your fingers. That may be your last opportunity to do it. Sometimes you must do things you don't like, but you know that they have value. Don't think that you can live without it. Resting, slacking, lunch may wait.But do not overwork yourself, because there are times that anything but not relaxing can wait.

Seventh tip: do it every day.
If you want to achieve anything, you need to practice it everyday. No mater what. If you don't have enough time for the activity, shorten the time you do it, but still keep doing it. Because it goes like that "oh, today I don't feel like it, gonna do it tomorrow. It's tomorrow, nothing gonna change if I wont do it for two days...few days...week... Oh, it was so long ago, I lost my skill and I won't do it again". That's why every single step is important and it doesn't mean that you need to see the change, you just need to keep doing it. After some time it become routine and it will be difficult for you to miss it.

Eighth tip: never be ashamed of yourself.
People think that they aren't perfect. Does it mean anything? Does it let anyone bully you, does it let you to hate yourself, does it let you to think less or more of anyone counting you in? I don't think so. It is not bad to think you are beautiful or smart. It is good, it means you love yourself, you know who you are, you know what you have the best in yourself and how to use it correctly. It is most important. Having something good about yourself do not mean that you have it better that others or worse than others. You have it different and you can't change it. If you can and you can improve it, do it. There are no judges if you don't care about them. Loving yourself, not being afraid and ashamed,  thinking "I am not good enough for it; he is too hot for me" and bullsh*t like that is nothing than unnecessary standing in one spot, moving forward would sound like that "I could try, that doesn't cost me anything; he is hot, gonna talk to him because I like hot guys".  If people say you no or yes, accept it with the same thankful attitude, because it is lessons you must take, it is what the life is. 

Have a good day/night and I will see you latter.

Being all successful and stuff

Hey You all, 

It's me here, back with some random stuff to tell you. My last post was about feelings, precisely about negative feelings. So today more positivity and tips for you to get more successful and happier.

So, first of all, I want to tell you, that  recently I saw this video on Youtube, which had those magnificent ideas for artists becoming more successful and that made me want to add my own tips. But I realized that those tips are great for everyone to use,  so this post is going to be a combination of few opinions  :)

First tip: use inspiration correctly.

Most people (like me) tend to have those waves of inspiration. Then we start trying to express that tension and most of the times we fail. I am sorry, but that is true. We fail because we believe that the only thing we need is inspiration, the passion, the feeling that makes you go crazy, but, well, that is maybe for skilled people. If you are not, well, you are not going to succeed by using that inspiration in creation. You need to build your skills. If you are not that talented (as I am), you don't have any particular skill, you should use that inspiration to build one (or few). You need to figure out what you want to do or what  you were good at school or just wake your skills up and develop them. Using inspiration in that way, I believe, you are going to achieve more than you ever thought you could.

Second tip: do not stop.

You fail. We all fail. This is how world works, i guess. Even wolf can not catch his prey ever single time. I've red that they only catch 1 animal from 10. But they do not stop. Because they need this to survive. So do we. And I am not talking about hunting, I am talking about not giving up. Try try try try and try. Do do do do and do. Never give up, never stop at the end of something. You think the thing is perfect. It is not, it always can be better. You can be better, stronger, kinder. Your creations too. Not only creations. I am not only talking about skills. Damn it. We stop at every single thing that goes wrong. But what we need to do is jump over it and continue doing what we need, want, have to do. Break up, death, injury, illness, lost, lack of something. Are they greater than us, are they more powerful, are we not important to ourselves at that range? That we lose ourselves to unemployment, to break ups? I think not, I bet, You think not too. So why proving yourself that you are when you are not?

Third tip: think about others more, about yourself less, but keep the balance. 

I tend to over think stuff. Like it is more important than anything. Mostly the stuff  that was not predicted that happened to others or to me. And it is frustrating.That never helps nobody, but ruins my life and my mental stability. Best way is to balance stuff. Maybe your problem is that you are egocentric. Maybe it is that you are altruist. Maybe you are ignorant. All of these things are extreme, they are too intense for one person, they harm you. And others. You need to realize that nothing is the center of the universe, but everything is. It is complicated, but true. That means everyone is equally important. People should help others whether they can or not, but giving all yourself to it, loosing yourself will give you nothing but frustration. Same thing if you leave all the world outside and care just for yourself. You gonna root inside and there will be nothing left than pretty box full of nothing :) Balancing is remembering that life  gives you lessons, that life gives you opportunities, "lemons" they say, but dropping everything for one thing will never gonna walk you to fullness.

Fourth tip: Don't live outside yourself. Live in yourself.

 Caring what people think, caring what they do, trying to understand if that makes anyone better and how things would be different WILL NOT CHANGE A THING, well, except you are going to be miserable.  People need to understand that they should do  what they are good at, that they want, that they need. You can change it, change everything: color of your hair, length of your nails, power of your car, your job, your school subject, also you may focus on health, beauty, art, philosophy, traveling.  The thing is you shouldn't do it, if you want it to get into other people minds, you should do it if you want it to be you regardless of others. If you would do it, if you would stop doing something for yourself because you want the impact to be done to others, how different you would be? Would you be the same? 

That's it for now. I am going to post some more, latter.

Bye